Eight months ago I wrote a very reflective post about how the divorce was at an 18 month anniversary. I just read the post again and it dawned on me that my divorce has now been going on a little over 2 years. It used to be that I would think about how long it was and dwell on how much longer it would take to finish this "uncoupling" - have I mentioned how much I HATE Gwyneth Paltrow. In fact, how many month/years/days it had been since I first filed became a thought that would never leave me. After reading my reflective post, I realized that I had to stop and count the months/years/days. It's no longer one of the main thoughts in my head. Just when I thought this day would never come, it snuck up on me!